Monday, March 29, 2010

Forming a Plan For a Recovering Drug Addict

Any recovering drug addict needs a plan. Without one, you're going to be extremely vulnerable to relapse. What makes up a good recovery plan? Let's take a look:

1. Getting through stage one

First, you need a plan to get you through stage one recovery. This is the initial stage in recovery when you are detoxing from the drugs themselves and are looking to string together a few weeks of sobriety. You are transitioning from a life of drug and alcohol addiction into the shock of living without self medicating all of a sudden.

Some people need more help than others with this initial phase. Many will have to go to a medical facility to help them detox from the drugs or alcohol. Others will also need short term residential treatment in order to establish a firm footing in sobriety. This stage is not about living the rest of your life in sobriety. It's just about getting clean and sober and getting your bearings so that you can start thinking clearly again.

Many people struggle to get clean and sober and never find successful footing in this early stage of recovery. The solution for this is to step up your efforts and attack the problem with increasing force. This eventually means living in a long term treatment facility if nothing else will work.

2. Formulating a strategy

In this case, strategy means the same thing as philosophy. The AA philosophy can be summarized from the 12 steps as: "Find God, clean house, and help others." There are other philosophies out there that can guide people to success in recovery. The creative theory of recovery has 3 strategies that are quite powerful in their simplicity: "Caring for self, networking with others, and personal growth."

Each of these 3 strategies are broad and universal in that they can be applied to our day-to-day decisions. Caring for ourselves is important from a holistic standpoint in both short and long term sobriety. Networking with others can be especially critical for support in early recovery. And the push for personal growth is needed for a sense of accomplishment and the building of valuable self esteem that can be an insurance against relapse.

3. Transitioning to holistic living

In stage one recovery, the goal is only to string together a sufficient period of sobriety so that we can get our bearings, start thinking clearly, and start to work on transitioning to a holistic approach to recovery.

This holistic approach to recovery is about much more than just spiritual growth. Instead, it is a strategy of treating the whole person when considering addiction, and striving to make progress in a number of different areas, including physical, mental, emotional, social, and spiritual areas.

This becomes increasingly important as we progress in our recovery and accumulate more and more clean time. Tactics for staying clean become routine and automatic and the real enemy becomes complacency and a lack of holistic growth. That's when you know you need to push yourself to grow in new areas and start thinking outside of the traditional "recovery box." Exercise, quitting smoking, meditation, emotional balance, and educational pursuits can all be examples of holistic growth in recovery.

To the newcomer, these things might not seem to be relevant to staying off of the drugs and alcohol. But in long term sobriety, we can see clearly that a lack of growth in these and other areas can eventually lead to relapse.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Yes It Is Possible To Beat And Defeat The Curse Of Alcohol Or Drug Abuse And Addiction

We, in Scotland, are battling against the enormous influences and powers of alcohol. I am sure it is similar wherever you are reading this article. Our newspaper headline this morning reads, "Highland fury as pub chain plans New Year drinks sale"!

I serve as Chaplain at Inverness Prison, and sit on the Children's Panel, which is the 'children's court' in Scotland - an excellent system by the way - and so often in the various reports I have to read are these words - "fuelled by alcohol".

Let me illustrate how a man's life can be transformed in this area alone by recounting what happened to a highly regarded and much respected Bible teacher, who died a few years ago. I have studied his teaching in depth and I know this man was for real!

A glass of whisky around six in the evening had become a habit for philosopher Derek Prince, while teaching at Cambridge University. This continued during his early army days.

Following a dramatic unexpected encounter with the risen Jesus in an army barrack room, circumstances suddenly changed. I have written about this elsewhere on Ezine. His biography is worth reading too.

Derek had no scruples about drinking whisky, but that next evening, after experiencing the living Christ, as he made his way towards the bar, his legs locked.

He suddenly realised that he had no interest whatsoever in approaching the counter for his whisky. Another thought struck him.

He had gone through that particular day, amongst a band of soldiers, without blaspheming.

Not only had God touched his heart, but God had touched his lips. God had transformed some lifetime's habits - the words which flowed from his mouth, and also what went into his mouth.

The previous night he had not known how to pray. The next day he could hardly stop praying, even when going about his military duties.

God explains all this by telling us that when a man is born again, and when he is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has gone. The new has come.

The transformation can be sudden. A man's situation can change almost immediately, without his even having to think about what is happening.

God rescues you from what He does not want you to have. He saves you from what will do you no good, setting your feet upon a new road, and even giving you a fresh vocabulary, in more ways than one.

Jesus does not want you to soil your lips and pollute the atmosphere.

When a man meets the living God, old desires are deleted and new abilities appear.

This is the true account of how one man beat and defeated the curse of alcohol. The adverts never show us that side of imbibing which leads to fights, feuds, family rumpuses, children being removed from the home, or prison.

There is an answer and if you think this may help you, or a friend who is battling with alcohol, do forward it as soon as is convenient.

Sandy Shaw